Ghost Stories and the Waking Dream

Fuselli's "Nightmare," inspired by 18th century misunderstandings of sleep paralysis

I love the feeling in the air during this time of year.  The crispness and chill after the warmth of summer reminds us of mortality.  With that comes the hopes and fears of life after death, coupled with the limitless imagination of the human mind.  It’s beautiful, frightening, confusing, and a whole lot of fun.

I’m going to tell some ghost stories.  I’m going to tell as many personal anecdotes as I can.  Despite my personal beliefs on their credibility, I believe that it’s important that certain of these kinds of stories repeat in our culture.  There are important things that can sometimes only be conveyed through the personal anecdote of unverifiable paranormal accounts.

So I was watching the first of these ghost story documentaries that they’ll be playing for the rest of the month.  The formula is pretty standard now.  Tape some people sitting in a dark room, throw some dramatic lighting and the optional odd camera angle, and get them to tell ghost stories.  Meanwhile, actors reenact the events, complete with film-student camera cuts and special effects.  Cue creepy music and suggestive text or narration that pretends to act ‘objective.’

Now, there are a lot of standard stories that you hear on these shows.  I propose that they’re always similar because 1) people hear them a lot already, 2) people tend to make judgments and leaps in logic toward those things they already believe in, and 3) there’s something about the values and beliefs of our culture that bears repeating again and again in similarly coded symbolic interpretations of events (as I said above).

My favorite television show ghost stories are ones that involve children waking up in the middle of the night and seeing something at their bedside.  Creepy in the extreme, surely.  These stories are followed by the child (now an adult) insisting to their parents that what they saw was real and not a dream.  This is usually followed by coincidental experiences after the event that seem to support the idea of a ghostly encounter.  The moral of the story is that children are somehow more attuned to things that adults take for granted (as symbolized by the ’spiritual’ world), perhaps due to their perceived innocence (i.e. lack of full cognitive ability and the talent to blissfully ignore social norms that adults are conditioned into), and that adults should really listen to children more often.

I have a kid of my own, who woke up in the middle of the night last month screaming that there was something in her room.  I ran in there, fueled by parental instinct and ignoring the voice of reason telling me that she was mistaken.  Sure enough, there she was, sitting up in bed in terror, pointing at a stuffed monkey sitting on her bed that she had won at the fair.  We shared a good laugh, but she still ended up sleeping in my bed.

In the words of Bill Cosby, I told you that story so I could tell you this one.  My heart sank when I heard her scream, not because I thought there was something there, but because I empathized with her terror.  My childhood was fraught with sleepless nights due to nightly events that would leave me frightened and exhausted.  I spent a lot of time either getting to bed as early as I could, to get as much sleep in as I could before things happened, or staring at the walls, not sleeping at all.  When I would drift off, my eyes would snap open, my heart would pound, and I’d wait for whatever it was to happen.

First, I would wake, but I would be frozen in place.  I would be incredibly drowsy and have a hard time fighting the inevitable return to sleep.  I would be in a panic for seemingly no reason at all.  Worst of all, I was convinced that someone or something was at my bedside, forcing this experience on me.  For some reason, I was trapped, unable to move, while something was there, doing God-knows-what.  Sometimes I was convinced it was a ghost, sometimes a demon, sometimes aliens.

While I was getting used to being used, the events started to take a new turn.  Sometimes I would wake up, not feeling paralyzed, and see things in my room.  I once saw a prison inmate, complete with striped suit and shackled to a ball and chain, crouching in my closet, grinning.  Once, I saw a man in black clothes standing at the foot of my bed, looking at me.  Another time a man and a woman looked at me over their shoulders while I woke up, saw that I had noticed them, and rushed towards me with malicious intent.  Every time I saw these things, they would fade in a few moments.  I started to get so used to seeing them that I would casually discount them.  One night I saw only a floating pair of hands that motioned around like a stage magician, clearly there just to try and scare me.  I yawned and went back to sleep.

I never knew what the hell this all was, but it would happen to me regularly until I was about 22 years old.  I never quite knew if all of this was just in my head, if my soul was in danger, or if I was experiencing some kind of psychic feedback from the alien abductions.  These things weighed on my mind so much through my life that they would of course enter into my dreams.  Nightmares of ghosts, demons, aliens, government experiments, etc. never ended.  Then one night that all changed.

I was sleeping on the lower bunk of my dorm room, alone, after my room mate had dropped out.  I started to wake up, I felt the usual feelings of terror, and I struggled to open my eyes and fight the sensation.  That’s when I saw him walk past my bed:

He walked past my head, looking towards the door.  He stopped, looked down at me for a second, then he moved on.  I woke up as soon as he was out of my field of vision, and I jumped to my feet.  I was alone, of course, except for the big cardboard cut-out of Jason Voorhees that I bought at a video store just two weeks before.  This was the sign from my subconscious that I have been making all of this up myself for years.

When I realized it was just a sleeping disorder, I felt great.  I would still have episodes on occasion (my last one was a few months ago), and the immediate feeling of terror will always come with it, but I started to get a lot more sleep and the problems declined immediately.  I spent the next few weeks looking on the internet for people with similar problems.  Lo and behold, I learned about ’sleep paralysis’ and how it occasionally comes with hallucinations (both visually and audibly – I have had some, but very few, sound hallucinations in this state).

I would encourage anyone who has had childhood imaginings like this (and at least three people I have known have) to look into this.  Alternately, don’t do anything of the kind, and keep spreading ghost stories.  I like to hear them, but please keep them out of science classrooms and academic discourse.  They do not belong there except as examples of contemporary folklore and mythology.  Fascinating!

Mini T-Rex is cute!

I love the fact that we’re thinking about a 10 foot-tall monster as a ‘miniature.’ It makes the discovery of Raptorex more fun, and gives me the image of a tiny dinosaur park in my daughter’s sandbox.

In other news, I saw the new episode of Community tonight, and I still feel like it’s rushed. I want an hour-long show and more development. The secondary characters don’t feel real enough and there are too many for me to meet and get to know. Where was the psychology professor that was so important in the pilot?

Lastly, I think I’m going to try video blogging soon. As soon as I find quiet time in a household with a three-year-old and two incontinent cats.

CNN Monster Reports

…and I’m bowled over by CNN again.  We have a story about four or five teenagers from Panama, who find some creature alive (maybe barely) and kill it with rocks.  They dump the creature in the water and run home.  They come back some time later and take a few pictures of the thing.  Then they destroy the body.  That means, aside from the photographs and the unverifiable story, there is no evidence of what the creature may have been.  I smell a hoax.  How many other stories with as little support for its reliability as this would get airtime on an international news channel?

Community Review

I was pretty excited to see the new NBC show, Community, starring Joel Mchale.  I’ve found myself enjoying his wit on The Soup, despite how little I care about the shows that The Soup highlights.  Call this a guilty pleasure of mine; aside from his intelligent humor, watching the show doesn’t do much more for me than releasing tension at the end of the day.  But I do like Chevy Chase, despite the general opinion that he isn’t funny (at least anymore – suspiciously since he started to socially step out of line and call out the people in charge for sucking out).  There haven’t been many television shows on lately that I watch, especially during prime-time, so I was happy to find something that might be worth my time.

I was also interested to see a show that focuses on community colleges.  I have a dual perspective on them – I went to one years ago, and now I’m employed by three.  That’s the doom of starting a career in higher education; I’m only employed part-time, so in order to make ends meet i have to spread myself pretty thin.  but I digress.

It’s no secret that most people have a pretty low opinion of community colleges.  I can certainly show you the statistics to the downfalls of them.  A recent study that was sent to me by one of my colleagues pointed out that there are more drop-outs at the community college level than at major universities, despite the rumor that they’re diploma factories.  I’d attribute this not to a lack of quality of education, but instead to the general environment of community colleges.  Because of the usual proximity to the students’ normal environment, it’s easier to give up and go back to the normal life that’s so close.  Even working at a community college, I’ve found, is way too comfortable for me.  I’m fighting the urge to stay right where I’m at instead of pursue that PhD.

So that’s the context of my viewing of the show Community.  As a television show, it gives a good set-up for a group of characters that otherwise wouldn’t meet, thus setting the stage for not only awkward humor in interaction, but also for a unique environment in which the characters can learn from one another and grow together.  The group represents a good collection of ‘typical’ community college students, which makes for a nice group dynamic.  I don’t get the feeling that the choices in characters is forced, necessarily – just the dialogue.

The dialogue was a little choppy for that first episode, and I have a feeling that the show might not last long because of it.  There is a lot of room for growth, but the pilot felt rushed – the writers have to get the characters together fast so the show can continue.  I have a hard time believing that the characters in the show would agree to gather together by the end of the pilot, despite the events depicted.  I’m hoping the show sticks around long enough for it to find its groove, because I see a lot of potential.

As for the depiction of community college life, I don’t know.  The campus seems a little big; the buildings seem a little big.  There was at one point the suggestion that Joel Mchale’s character would be around for at least four years, so he can get a bachelor’s degree.  In the Real World, community colleges are small, two-year colleges that grant “Associate’s” degrees (or something equivalent) and the easy transfer of credits to the closest four-year university.  They are generally supported by the local city/county (the ‘community’) through taxes and donations, and helps said community by hosting adult education classes and city-ordinance support, such as driving schools for moving violations, or other community services.  So the depiction of community colleges in Community is a little wrong.

This, of course, is a Hollywood fudge.  NBC wouldn’t support a show where the lead character can expect to be off the show in two years.  Furthermore, having a large campus certainly gives the writers more leeway in setting and scope – in fact, some of the scenes feel like they were included to establish possible locations for future episodes.

But I worry that the show is either based on, or is pacifying towards, the ideas that people already have about higher education.  The past several years has seen the county doubt education and higher learning.  It seems that people only respect college degrees as they are immediately applicable to the beginning of a career, rather than the simple pursuit of knowledge.  In truth, the four year university I attended felt, at times, like a job factory, producing people who cared nothing about the education they were getting, as long as they were able to find work in business or computer programming upon graduation.  When the show blurs the line between community colleges and four-year universities, will that get confused in the minds of the people watching the show?  The show does a good job showing the drawbacks of “a school that has an express tuition aisle,” but that opinion could easily wash over to their opinion of higher education in general.  The whole point of the show, it seems, is that learned education is only important because of the piece of paper they give you at the end, and what you really learn are lessons from your peers about life.

Okay, granted.  Life experiences are really what make people complete human beings.  And it’s nice to watch a show that has everyone starting on what they (the characters) perceive as the bottom of their life.  Hell, the only reason I went to a community college was because I was not prepared to pay back the money I owed to the art college I went to for less than a year before dropping out of that (as an artist, I make an excellent writer), so that’s a valid perspective.  I just have a feeling that there is a general misunderstanding of what education is all about, especially what is required for a four-year degree.  There’s a big difference, and that’s a reason that community colleges are only accredited for two-year degrees.

You can watch the entire pilot at nbc.com.  Go and do it.  Not a waste of time.

Boo, Dude

So, let’s follow this train of thought from the station to the moment it hits a minivan and derails, okay?

So, I’m watching Paranormal State right now. This is my first time. I’ve seen a few clips on The Soup – a guilty pleasure I in no way defend myself on – and decided to watch an episode. The verdict is that there is no reason to watch another, ever. Watching it, though, did send my brain on a friendly run.
It was easy to laugh to myself at the thought of half-drunk frat guys hunting for ghosts, especially with my imagination of their dialogue. (“There’s a spirit here, bro.”) Then I laughed even harder when I remembered that masterpiece of independent cinema, Alex Winter and Tom Stern’s Freaked. In a scene (or two – I can’t quite remember) that parodied Winter’s involvement in the pop culture films Lost Boys and Bill and Ted’s Excellent Adventure both at once, his Freaked character’s catch phrase was “Boo, Dude!” I thought, at the moment, that it was funny, because the things that one generation imagines as being laughable is turned into something that someone attempts with sincerity.
That’s all neither here nor there. What I started to wonder is, “where the hell are all the weird-ass independent movies?” They don’t have to be movies, of course. But there used to be something on the fringe that was strange and wonderful, a fun-house reflection of pop culture. It was a critique, but from the perspective of those who knew that they were hopelessly mired in it. The horrified, doomed and damned victims of pop culture quicksand looking around and asking why nobody notices. They used to be outraged that nobody is reaching for a rope or vine or something useful, but at the same time knowing full well that they aren’t doing much to save anyone, either, including themselves.
And I laugh, and laugh, and laugh, because I see a punch-line in there that nobody else seems to. And the things that are weird and frightening now lack substance, are only distant mythological threats that everyone believes in, and the real jokers are either dead and gone or are laughing in silence, throats raw and voiceless, or bound and gagged with tears streaming down their grinning faces, and Nelson, on his pillar, watching his world collapse.

Chupacabra on CNN

Okay, seriously.  When will they stop ‘reporting’ things like this?  CNN has to stop treating contemporary folklore as though it was factual news.

In other news, the guys with a bigfoot in their freezer stepped up to say that it was a big joke.  I’m of two minds about this.  On the one hand, I hate to see people perpetuate these ideas.  It just gets the crazies in an uproar and validates their belief systems, even if the claimants are obvious hoaxers making a joke or trying to make a buck.  On the other hand, this Andy Kaufman approach to the paranormal is kind of funny.  In the end, I think I’m a little upset with myself that I didn’t assume that they were doing it for a joke.  I still think they were more interested in money than humor, mostly because they didn’t really make it THAT funny.  They were just riding a little joke to see how far it would go and how big their names would get.  Final verdict then, after talking my way through it: they’re still idiots.

Anime still blows

I just saw an ad on Adult Swim for their anime Saturdays and that 20 second hyper-flash clip collection they called a commercial reminded me, in just that brief amount of time, that anime is ridiculously asinine. I used to watch it back in the day because I thought the overblown emotional reactions of every character, and the total lack of consequences for them, was one of the most hilarious things I had ever seen. Why this shit-fest became something respected was beyond me. That is, until emo music got popular, then I realized that this concept is pretty attractive to repressed selfish assholes who only care about their own problems or how the problems of others directly affect them. Blame an internet society, or a lack of beauty and truth in art, or a media concerned with sensationalism over substance, or Joe Quesada for shitting on how comic books are interpreted, both contemporary and classic. I saw the last five minutes of the Spectacular Spider-Man cartoon today, and in the end, Peter Parker almost missed a high school dance where he was supposed to meet Mary Jane, not his actual high-school sweetheart, Gwen Stacy, who Spider-Man accidentally killed later in their relationship. THAT’S RIGHT. Spider-Man killed her. People like to remember Green Goblin being to blame, but that’s only part of the story. It was Spidey’s own arrogance that did it, and HELLS BELLS that was an important part of Spider-Man’s history AS WELL AS comic history. Misunderstanding that, or ‘reinterpreting’ that idea misses the point entirely. We like to see heroes stomp in with no regard for anything other than winning the day, but there was a time when they actually gave a shit about innocent bystanders and BLAMED THEMSELVES when they failed. Add that complaint to the reasons why Batman Begins blew baboon balls, while we’re at it.

UFO vs. Windmill: CNN’s expert reporting strikes again

Here we go again. CNN doing their damndest to avoid actual reporting in favor of promoting sensationalism, superstition and stupidity.

I found in a blog attached to CNN that a real explanation was given by authorities: the thing just snapped apart. I can’t find this guy’s source, but it sounds like these kinds of things happen all the time. Things break when under stressful conditions. Or, as John Bender would say “Screws fall out all the time. The world is an imperfect place.” But no, people jump to conclusions based on several factors:
1. Lack of reasoning skills, both deductive and inductive
2. Irrational faith in the physical products of mankind
3. Inexperience
4. Beliefs bordering on religious fervor, wanting to believe in ’something else out there’
5. Sheer ignorance

And CNN won’t report “oh, it wasn’t a UFO after all. It was just mechanical failure based on a faulty part and bad weather conditions.” No, they’ll let the UFO story stand and promote ignorance among the population. Thanks, CNN, for making everyone stupider.

Bigfoot, UFOs, Ghosts… on CNN

I could care less if people want to believe in these things.  In fact, I find it remarkable that in this world of scientific discovery, we’ve managed to preserve the cultural trend of living folklore.  I find it even more remarkable that the folklore trend is to mystify and present a de-personalized lore.  Instead of named lore figures, like Paul Bunyan and Pecos Bill, our folklore now gives us indistinct shapes and nameless multitudes of creatures.  There are whole colonies of bigfoots and whole starships full of gray aliens, all of whom are impersonal beings that somehow interact with people on a very personal level.

Regardless, the real tragedy is not that people believe the modern (or maybe I should say post-modern) hucksters’ claims of finding a bigfoot body in Georgia, or having been contacted by extra-terrestrial visitors, but that these reports find their way to CNN, of all places.  I will let others chatter relentlessly about the liberal or conservative media (liberal reporters reading reports approved by conservative mega-corporations means you can read either argument into that).  Instead, I will question the validity, the reputation, and the judgment of FOX and CNN by giving even a passing glance toward this rediculous pseudo-science bullshit.

None of these things are news.  They are debunked regularly by reputable scientists.  The most recent bigfoot discovery has been debunked.  DNA evidence came up with human and oppossum DNA, the body the bigfoot hunters had in their freezer looked suspiciously like a particular bigfoot costume one can purchase online, and they failed to produce the body at a press conference they held.  And yet, CNN will continue to report on nonsense like this, now and for days to come.  Even Larry King did a show on UFOs and one on psychics.

Bullshit.  Here are some videos you can watch, and get angry about poor reporting with me:

New Bigfoot “discovery” given more attention than three con men deserve: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iOKM7r6fq7M&feature=related and http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q4rknzC4XKs

Larry King, senile and useless: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gBVoIT3KRYI

Fox News doing its part to make America stupider: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MLjTRX-Dv9c

And my personal favorite, expert reporting about a bug crawling on a security camera: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kaYnbZmsq0k